Fondling his wife, he had an erection and ejaculated while fasting

Question: Does an erection due to kissing one’s wife render Wudoo’ and Sawm (Fast) Baatil (null and void) or Wudoo’ only? Another question: What is the ruling on wearing perfume while fasting; is it Haraam (prohibited) or Makrooh (disliked)?

Answer: Generally, as a fasting person, you should keep yourself away from acts which render Sawm incomplete or Baatil. The Prophet (peace be upon him) is reported to have said: When any one of you is fasting, he should neither have sexual relations with his wife nor behave impudently; and if anyone abuses him or quarrels with him he should say: “I am fasting.”(Agreed upon by Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim)... read more here.

What did `Aa’ishah mean when she said: He used to kiss and fondle me?

Question: What did `Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) mean when she said he used to kiss and touch me (Related by Al-Bukhaaree)? What is meant in detail by “touch me” that is mentioned in the Hadeeth? Please guide me. May Allaah reward you with the best.

Answer: Anyone who observes Sawm (Fast) has the Rukhsah (concession) to kiss and touch without having intercourse as long as he is able to control his lust. It was authentically reported on the authority of `Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) that she said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace be upon him) used to kiss and touch (his wives) without having intercourse while observing Sawm; but he had the greatest control over his desire (as compared with you).... read more here.