Question: Some people visit the grave of prophet Yunus (Jonah, peace be upon him) and make Tawaf (circumambulation) around it. The grave is surrounded by a room made of aluminum and glass. There are windows through which some people throw bags of candy such as Jaklit (Iraqi candy made of wheat, fat, milk, and sugar), others throw money, and some others throw green cloth. Allaah knows the secrets of people whether they mean by their actions only the sake of Allaah or if they want to draw closer to Him through prophet Yoonus (peace be upon him). The authority of Waqf (Endowment), in turn, confiscates these types of candy, money, and cloth. Some of the workers there distribute this candy to their relatives and friends for blessing. As for the cloth, they are sold in the form of bands 20 cm × 5 cm for half a dinar. Buyers put these bands in their hands or pockets for the sake of warding off harm or out of fear of getting hurt. As for the money, only Allaah knows what they do with it. Is it permissible to eat this candy or not? May Allaah reward you.
Answer: (A) Visiting graves for anyone other than women is Sunnah (a commendable act) because of the Prophet’s saying: Visit graves for they remind you of the hereafter.… read more here.