Question: What did `Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) mean when she said he used to kiss and touch me (Related by Al-Bukhaaree)? What is meant in detail by “touch me” that is mentioned in the Hadeeth? Please guide me. May Allaah reward you with the best.
Answer: Anyone who observes Sawm (Fast) has the Rukhsah (concession) to kiss and touch without having intercourse as long as he is able to control his lust. It was authentically reported on the authority of `Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) that she said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace be upon him) used to kiss and touch (his wives) without having intercourse while observing Sawm; but he had the greatest control over his desire (as compared with you).... read more here.